More Strangeness

Perhaps I should be the one to post a warning that the following is, well...it feels like it doesn't belong at a meeting with kids of all ages present.

During a ministry service meeting an Elder was talking about how young people need to make sure they find good associations to befriend. Then he goes on about how a few boys in the congregation have had sleepovers at home and would go on to watch porn and masturbate together.

I couldn't believe my ears. What I mostly feel upset about is how all the elementary kids were looking up to their parents probably wanting to know what was going on.

Is this the best way to handle things? Worse yet, is how the Elder emphasized in our congregation.